sherskey
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Before you feel bad and start blaming people for always leaving you, ask yourself why they leave. It's not always because they don't have a reason to stay. Sometimes it's because you give them a reason to go.
#puso#
To the next person that I'll fall in love with...
If you fall in love with me, don't give me your heart. I want you to keep it.
Instead, put me in it. Alongside all the other things that you love.
I don't want you to make me your world. I want you to have your own and just make me a part of it.
I want you to be happy with a variety of reasons and not just me alone.
If you give me your heart, you're giving me control over it. But I don't want to control you. I want you to be happy. If I accept your heart, I'll be it's cage. Love is supposed to be free; therefore, I refuse to accept your heart. Keep it and love me the way you want to love me.
And if our love is right, things will just slowly fall into place and everything will work out just fine.
She's been broken
Before you fall in love with her, you have to understand that she's not perfect. She's been broken. A few times in her life she's been fooled and hurt. She has doubts. She will take precaution. This comes with the package.
This will make it harder for you. Your goal is to make her feel happy and loved. You can't make her happy when she's hurting. You have to take away the pain. You have to be the one to prove to her that there's hope in love.
#Repost
Lately I've been seeing posts saying "If your ex blocks you, you won".
Won what? What exactly did you win? What exactly did you gain by making someone hate you enough to completely remove you from their life? I don't get this way of thinking.
Mature relationships do not end in hate. Mature relationships end because two people have accepted the fact that they are just not meant to be. They look at each other with gratitude for the lessons they've both learned and for the love, memories, and experience they have shared.
Exes can even become great friends. They know you better than most people after all. It just takes acceptance and understanding.
Love is not a competition. It doesn't keep track.
If your ex hates you, you didn't win anything. You just lost someone who once cared about and loved you, not to mention complete peace of mind.
So quit the immaturity.
It's better to live life knowing that no one hates you than to live each day knowing that someone out there despises your very existence.
Understand. Accept. Learn.
#Repost
Free yourself from the complexities and drama of your life. Simplify. Look within. Within ourselves we all have the gifts and talents we need to fulfill the purpose we've been blessed with.
No matter how much we want things to stay the same, life is all about change. Sometimes change is for the better, and sometimes its not. #LookingForward #blessed #blessed #GGSS #thankyoulord