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B_Spade
1年前
You like wine, i like tea.
You like the mountain, i like the sea
You are an early bird, i am a late owl
You are an introvert, i am an extrovert
AND…
You like to exercise, i like to eat 😬
What do you do when you and your partner is a direct opposite of each other? The way you think, act and resolve matters are different. The way you value time, friendship, family and finance is different.
Here are 5 ways to meet mid-way.
1) Acknowledge your differences.
- no two people is the same
2) Share your preference style of communication and way of life
- talk through and ask each other how do they feel more love or want to be communicated.
Eg: “i don’t feel appreciated when you say / do this.” “Can you speak softer when we are arguing?” “Can i have some space to process my thoughts before we decide on a solution?”
3) Listen and understand the intention with love, patience and kindness.
- Be respectful, don’t judge
4) Accept that it is unlikely for both of you to change immediately. (Or will never change 😬)
- be prepared to remind again and again
- be prepared to forgive 99x
5) Be open and Enjoy the opposite beauty of things you never saw.
- Your partner may surprise you with new things you never knew.
- You could be experiencing the best relationship combination to bring out the best in you.
All the best!
#relationship# #lovewins#relationship#loveandfinance#relationship#communications#lovewins#ldr# #oppositeattracts#
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红豆冰不要冰： nice sharing onnieb😃
B_Spade
1年前
What’s on your plate?
Some things are things that you can never do. But there are still many things that you CAN do.
Do the things that you can,
begin from there…. N slay 2023 your own way…
#new2023# #old2022#new2023#relationship#new2023#goals#old2022#thoughts#new2023#justdoit# #old2022# #relationship# # #
😎： 2023 huat ah!
funnyface
2年前
Lela
2年前
Lela
2年前
这世上没有天生适合的两个人，只有后来磨合的两颗心。每个人都有优点同样也有缺点，如果你接受不了一个人的缺点，那么你也就不配拥有一个人。
爱，不是一时的激情，不是一时的浪漫，更不是一时冲动，如果仅仅只是因为这样去选择爱，那不过只是图个新鲜。
爱，是一种包容，是一种温暖，更是一种责任，选择爱的同时就要承当责任，这种责任是要用一辈子去履行的。当你选择了爱，就应该对自己的爱负责。
一个人要是没有责任心，最终只会自食恶果，被整个世界抛弃。为什么那么多平平凡凡的爱情，能够一步一步的坚持到最后。不是没有更好，而是懂得珍惜自己所拥有的。
为什么那么多平平淡淡的感情，能够一点一滴的陪伴到最后。除了已经习惯的，其余的都是对彼此感情的负责。感情是可以培养, 缺点可以改正, 性格可以磨合, 默契可以沟通。只要有爱，什么都可以，唯独不爱，就一定什么都不可以。
#love# #relationship#love#compromise#love#patience# #爱#
B_Spade
2年前
One of the art of leadership is the ability to stay calm, stern yet warm all at the same time.
Saying goodbyes in May.
#weekendmood# #leadership#weekendmood#relationship#weekendmood#lovewins#leadership#positivevibes#
funnyface
3年前
The right one will always appear at the right time #righttime# #timing#righttime#relationship#righttime#life#
范尔🌻
3年前
感情關係在乎Give and take…
- 智能愛人-
There are givers and takers.
A relationship only works when both people are givers.
Because a giver will eventually become empty and a taker will never become full.
#relationship#
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CrazyJo： Dun kopi meow me…but then in relationships always good to have both but nothing is fair..always will b one party giving more 😜
funnyface
3年前
First or last, ❤️ from the heart. #randomposts# #love#randomposts#relationship#randomposts#life#
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