How to avoid becoming a hopeless romantic

1. Don't worry too much about the other half's affairs

Don't worry about whether she has any contact with others or not. If not, just say goodbye. The person who can live a peaceful life with you will never make you worry.

2. Don't care why it took her a long time to reply to the message

Everyone has busy times, they are all adults and have their own jobs. It's better to focus on her and do your job well to improve yourself.

3. Manage your own life well

Don't lose yourself and your social circle because of the other person. True love should be a steady stream, a silent companionship, and you have your own things, and I have my own ideals to pursue.

4. Don't always get emotional because of her

Don't stare at her all the time, focus your energy and energy on yourself, pay more attention to yourself. If you pay more attention to yourself, your significant other will love you more.

5. Don't overly focus on her life

Don't guess her thoughts, and don't worry about whether she has a desire to share with you. If she doesn't want to say anything, don't chase after her. The love that comes is meaningless.

6. Don't meddle in the affairs of your significant other

Being overly involved in the other person's affairs, nagging all day long, you think it's for her own good, but she feels tired and thinks you're meddling.

7. If you want to meet, take the initiative

When you want to meet, take the initiative to ask if he has time and express your thoughts. It's okay to be rejected, don't be afraid of rejection, and don't feel sad because of rejection.

8. Don't easily believe the other person's sweet words

Just listen at that time, don't take it seriously. Not taking it seriously, so as not to be too sad in the end.

9. Don't have romantic fantasies about her

Treat her as a normal person and don't have unrealistic expectations of her. If you don't do this well, you will only be hurt in the end.

10. Don't always talk about breaking up when you're angry

This kind of topic is really hurtful to relationships, unless you really want to break up. She can coax you once or twice, and if you do, everyone will feel annoyed. In the end, it will come true.

11. Have the courage to leave at any time

Economic independence is key, don't overly rely on her. In this world, besides yourself, others may harm you.

12. Live your own life seriously

You need to work seriously, exercise seriously, read seriously, and live seriously. What is not enough for you to be busy with? Don't cling to love all day long.

13. Besides love, there are other things

Besides love, there are many important things in your life. The reason why you are unhappy every day is because you attach too much importance to her. Her expression, action, or sentence can influence your emotions, even causing you to collapse and neglect loving yourself well.