What is' bed death '?

Bed death "is actually a widely circulated term among lesbian couples, referring to the gradual reduction of intimate life between partners over time, especially after two years of being together, the situation becomes more apparent.

Firstly, many lesbian couples have to face different physiological cycles, such as hormonal fluctuations, menstrual cycles, and menopause. All of these can affect the desire for each other, sometimes the desires and needs of two people simply do not match. These are all normal phenomena and cannot be completely avoided. In addition, the pressure of life can also greatly affect intimate relationships. Everyone has various pressures from work, social, and family, which may result in their bed life being put on hold.

Do we have any solutions?

Unfortunately, there is currently no clear method to 'cure' the problem of bed death. But in fact, as long as one or both of you feel dissatisfied, it is considered the real problem. If you are worried that bed death is affecting your relationship, you can try some methods to get your happy life back on track.

The three major methods that can heal many relationships are communication, communication, and communication again. Communicate with each other! Talk about your most exciting moments and what interests you. Make an effort to free up time for each other and spend more time with each other.

If your intimate life really encounters a bottleneck, why not try something new! This may not take immediate effect, but it is definitely a good start to help you regain that intimacy.