9 Ways to Tell if You Are a Lesbian

1. Imagine yourself dating a sexy and charismatic guy, with intimate kissing or even just holding hands scenes.

What is your first reaction at this moment? If you feel excited, amused, or experience romantic emotions, then you are most likely not a homosexual. Of course, you could also be bisexual. However, if you find such imagination disgusting, or find it absurd and awkward, then it is likely to mean that you are gay.

2. Imagine you are enjoying a romantic date with a beautiful girl, kissing passionately, or even walking hand in hand.

If you experience excitement, fun, or endless romance in such a scene, then you may be a lesbian. However, if you feel as nauseous, absurd, or awkward as when facing boys, it may just mean that you have an early inclination towards homosexuality, or that you are not yet accustomed to this idea, or that you are bisexual.

3.Have you ever unintentionally developed a liking for a girl, or even imagined spending the rest of your life with her, weaving together a beautiful blueprint for the future?

4. Think about the lesbian people you have heard of or seen. Do you find them very attractive or interesting? Have you ever felt a sense of admiration or a desire to get to know them better? If you have such a feeling, it may mean that deep down inside you, you long to become a member of the lesbian community. This is not just an appreciation for them, but also an expectation and pursuit for oneself.

5.Have you ever had an experience where you always find various reasons to avoid a guy's pursuit when you are dating him? Or do you feel uncomfortable when a boy approaches you? Even though he has good conditions in all aspects. If so, then this may be a signal that you are not interested in boys.

6. Watch lesbian movies or read lesbian novels to test your feelings about the topic. Do you empathize with the emotions involved? Or does it make you feel nauseous or indifferent? If so, you may have a sign that you have a certain sexual orientation, but it cannot determine your sexual orientation. If you have any doubts or confusion, it is recommended to seek professional help to understand your feelings and thoughts.

7. Kiss: Have you ever kissed another girl? Or have you been kissed by other girls? If so, doesn't it feel good? Do you occasionally want to do it again? Or was it just a joke? If you feel good and want to try again, then you may be a lesbian.

8. Fantasy: Are most of your fantasy objects female or male? Simply answering this question is already quite indicative of the problem.

9. Going on a date: The best way is to truly date another lesbian and experience your true feelings.

If you have always held stereotypes about homosexuality or have no understanding of this culture, the first attempt may make you feel a little uncomfortable. But please believe that this process will help you reveal your innermost feelings. (Meanwhile, if you don't feel happy kissing or dating women, it doesn't mean you treat all women the same way, maybe it's just because you haven't met the right person yet.)

If you want to learn more about yourself, explore the LesPark community~