The 3-Month Dating Rules for Lesbians
Whether you met someone through a party, friends, or the LesPark platform, you can refer to the 3-month dating rule when dating her. This may make your relationship develop more smoothly and comfortably.
1、 What does a 3-month date include?
1. Mutual understanding stage
It is generally believed that during the first three months, both parties are in a period of mutual understanding. This stage aims to discover each other's interests, values, life goals, and other basic information. Also, understand the other person's personality traits, such as introversion or extroversion, emotional stability, etc.
2. Stage of deepening emotions
As the date progresses, the relationship will gradually deepen within three months. From initial mutual attraction based on appearance or first impression, it gradually developed into appreciation of each other's inner worlds. Physical contact may also gradually increase, from initial holding hands to light hugs, and in situations where both parties are comfortable, there may be more intimate gestures. But everything should be based on mutual consent and respect for each other's boundaries.
3. Determine the stage of the relationship (possible)
If during these three months of dating, both parties feel compatible and happy with each other, they may choose to officially become partners.
2、 What should be done specifically?
1. Communication frequency
In the first month, go on 1-2 dates per week and maintain moderate contact through phone or text messages, mainly for scheduling appointments and simple greetings.
In the second month, as mutual familiarity increases, the frequency of communication can be appropriately increased. In addition to weekly appointments, you can share life anecdotes with your partner. Increase the number of dates per week appropriately and participate in some simple activities together, such as outdoor walks or small concerts.
In the third month, communication and meetings become more frequent, and participation in important life events of the other party begins, such as attending friend gatherings or family dinners. The number of meetings can be flexibly arranged according to the schedules of both parties. Meet as many people as possible.
2. Date activity arrangement
In the first month, dating activities are mainly focused on relaxed and public occasions. For example, watching movies together or having dinner together. These activities can help both parties alleviate the tension of their first meeting and get to know each other in a relaxed atmosphere.
In the second month, interactive activities can be added. For example, doing a certain sport together or cooking a meal together.
In the third month, consider getting to know each other's activities more deeply. For example, taking a walk together to the place where the other person used to live when they were children.
3、 Possible changes and adjustments
1. It varies from person to person
Some couples may progress faster and establish a close relationship in less than three months. This may be because they have many common experiences or backgrounds, and there is a natural understanding between them. For example, if two people are alumni and had some interactions during their school years, and they reconnect after meeting again, the development of their relationship may accelerate.
2. Impact of special circumstances
If there are special circumstances during the date, such as one party having urgent work projects that require long overtime hours, or major family changes, it may be necessary to reduce the frequency of meetings appropriately, respect and understand the other party, but emotional support can be maintained through phone calls.
It should be noted that the "3-month dating rule" is only a reference, and the development pace of each couple should be decided by themselves. The key is that both parties can feel comfortable and happy during the dating process. We suggest that couples log in to LesPark to record their sweet moments!
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